Thursday, June 11, 2009

No Regrets


I know I just posted a few days ago but I thought I would like to share with all of you what has been on my mind as of late. Two weeks ago when we had our garage sale,Terri Beck's daughter and I were sitting in the driveway just chatting away as we had no shoppers all morning. Terri asked me a question that I have been thinking about ever since she asked it! She asked me if I knew that before I moved from California that this is how everything would turn out, would I have still made the move. First of all I'm grateful that she is comfortable enough with me that she was able to ask such a tough question. I have spent the last few weeks thinking this one over.


I guess I have finally formulated some what of an answer. If you told me 10 years ago this is how it was going to turn out, I would have had serious reservations about moving. I am glad that we do not know how life is going to turn out. There is so much I would have missed.


First off I got to marry the love of my life who was my best friend. I would have missed all the adventures that we seemed to get ourselves in. Beck found out some of my interests (Elton John, Drag racing) and made them her interests! We made trips back to California, Ireland, Florida, and anywhere that Elton John played that was drivable (Columbus, Oh, Pittsburgh Pa, Kitchener Ontario Canada, Hershey Pa). It has been the happiest eight years of my life. So I think the real question Terri was asking was; did I have any regrets? The answer is I have no regrets!

2 comments:

  1. It's good to know you feel that way. You deserved every happy moment of that eight years. And you brought Becky's light to the rest of us, for which we will always be grateful. Love you. You will be happy again some day.

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  2. Great answer Scott. You had 8 terrific years of memories and we were blessed just by knowing becky. Thank yu for that. If everyone worried about the future I don't think any one would leave their house. Love you

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